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A private place to see it for yourself.

The Breakup Journal is for anyone leaving a relationship that keeps pulling them back, or still inside one and trying to see it clearly. Write what happens, notice the pattern, and remember it in your own words.

Coming soon to the App Store

For iPhone. Free, with no account.

Write it down as it happens

The hard moments and the good ones, in a few words or the full story. Add the date, photos, and the boundaries that were crossed.

See the highs and lows

Relationships like this swing between closeness and hurt. Seeing the swings side by side is often what makes them make sense.

Remember, in your own words

Keep the statements that matter to you, and flag the moments you may need later. You can export a dated record if you ever need one.

Calm, one tap away

Breathing and grounding practices for the moments when it all gets loud.

Your journal stays on your phone, and in your own private iCloud if you turn sync on. No account, no ads, no tracking. We can't read it, and neither can anyone else. On your home screen it simply says TBJ.

If you need help right now

In immediate danger, call 911.

National Domestic Violence Hotline: call 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788. Free and confidential, 24/7. thehotline.org

Thinking about suicide, or worried about someone: call or text 988.

Outside the US, contact your local emergency number.